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Owner/chef Michelle Carpenter says
Restaurant Beatrice is redefining ‘best’
By Rich Lopez, page 12
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wig and gold-sequined dress, the Build-A-Bear
website notes.
located at 9109 John W. Carpenter Freeway (at
Regal Row) in Dallas, according to a paper sign
posted on the business’ glass doors.
WHAT’S THE TEA: DallasVoice.com To top it all off, there is a RuPaul’s Drag Race The sign, a photo of which was provided
logo on its paw. to Dallas Voice, reads: “No Transgender’s [sic]
Texas Senate approves a $4,000 fine or both.
“Category is: Teddy bear realness.” allowed in building or on property.” Added in
A “sexually oriented” performance, as defined
anti-drag SB 12 by SB 12, is one that includes someone who is
—Tammye Nash small type in the lower right corner is “Per Johnny
The Texas Senate March 23, 2023”.
naked or in drag and “[appealing] to the prurient
on Tuesday, April According to an employee who answered the
interest in sex.” Bliss Adult Arcade bans phone at Bliss, the ban on trans customers was
4, voted 12-10 to
Sen. Bryan Hughes, a Mineola Republican, transgender patrons
approve a measure put in place after the manager, who he identified
successfully introduced an amendment during
limiting which drag as Curt, “was attacked by a group of them.”
debate that expands SB 12 to cover any sexually
shows children can The employee said that a group of about four
explicit performance, not just drag.
attend. SB 12 is, transgender individuals “attacked somebody
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First of all, When choos-
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and at Isla Vet we are humbled to have have very busy lifestyles, it is best to
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you all again. stimulated and active. Some pets shed
I recently had a request to discuss a more than others or need more regular
very important topic that I think many grooming appointments.
of us animal lovers have thought about If we might not have enough time to
at least once or twice in our lives: How train a dog, it is best that we avoid cer-
do we know if we are ready to and ca- tain breeds that need intensive training.
pable of adopting an animal and adding If we already have a pet that does not As you can see, deciding whether to I hope this column will be helpful to
such an important family member to like other dogs or cats, we have to take adopt a pet is a big decision. After all, you in deciding if you are ready for that
h this is a commitment for life, as both next big step. Thank you for taking the
our lifestyles? that into consideration.
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understanding the real reason for our the species and breed you are inter- truly believe pets should never be given ing forward to our next topic in May.
interest in adding a fur member to our ested in and don’t make any decisions as a gift to someone else, but rather Abrazos, gente linda.
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our spare time and schedule. Are we nocompromised family members, take
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consider a pet that may not require a a pet to the family is a financial com-
significant time commitment? mitment that involves more than just
Certain pets need to bond with us providing food and water. Pets need
humans more than others, especially vaccines, preventive care, toys and
dogs. If we do not devote the appro- medical care — and more. Pet health
priate time to them, not only can they insurance plans are additional financial
feel alone, but they can also become investments that while vital, can prove
destructive out of boredom and/or challenging to some families and need
anxiety. to be taken into consideration when
Just like human kids, many of our deciding whether we are ready to adopt
pets need to stay busy or mentally a pet or not.
stimulated to be as healthy and happy When our pet is very mature or has
as possible. We also need to remember recently passed away, it can be very
they require time to be trained, and, in challenging to determine when may be
moments of sickness, they require time the best time to get another fur baby
for medical care through your veteri- because everyone grieves differently.
narian. Would having a new fur baby before
In addition to having available time a current one passes away help in
for the potential new family member, coping with that death, or do we need
we also have to consider whether we to wait until after losing a loved one
have enough space and if our home before adopting a new pet? There is
is ready to receive a fur baby. This no right or wrong decision, as long as
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potential dangers, including access to emotions alone.
toxic plants/chemicals, electric cords Whatever that decision may be,
or dangerous situations. Some pets please know that no baby will ever be a
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VOICES
OPINIONS FROM THE COMMUNITY
Can’t happen, won’t happen … did happen!
A grand jury upholds
the rule of law
T
here is a long history in this coun-
try of folks saying one thing and
doing another. From the man who
wrote “All men are created equal” own-
ing 600 people to professed Christians
seething with intolerance, betrayal of
humanity has been the id battling Amer-
ica’s superego for 247 years.
The latest example is Donald Trump.
Using what conservative columnist
George Will once called feral cunning,
Trump has played our lowest impulses ing to hold him accountable
like a virtuoso. sets a dangerous precedent.
Fortunately, American history also Manhattan DA Alvin
includes freedom struggles and course Bragg persuaded a grand
corrections. On March 30, Trump, whose jury to indict Trump on 34
privilege and brazenness long permit- felony counts, demonstrat-
ted him to flout the law without conse- ing what most Americans
quence, finally experienced what many believe: that presidents
people feared would never happen: a and former presidents are
criminal indictment. not above the law. Trump
It surprised no one when the GOP, pleaded not guilty and will
which has long portrayed itself as the have an opportunity to de-
law and order party, circled the wag- fend himself in court. head above Twitter” is frequent muting Really? Not even a little!
ons around the former president. De- Former Attorney General Bill Barr said and blocking to reduce noise from right- The man who demanded the death
termined to hold onto power, regardless it would be a bad idea for Trump to tes- wing trolls. penalty for the Central Park Five — and
of election results, they have embraced tify at his own trial. As journalist Brian Prior to Trump’s April 4 arraignment, refused to apologize after their exonera-
Richard Nixon’s statement to David Krassenstein wrote, “Trump’s own attor- New York Mayor Eric Adams warned tion — deserves no glamour, only come-
Frost: “When the president does it, that ney general thinks he ‘lacks all self con- protesters, “Behave yourselves.” Georgia uppance.
means it is not illegal.” trol,’ yet Republicans want him to con- Republican Rep. Marjorie Taylor Greene Not that he will go quietly. His lawyer
Republicans think their contradictions trol the nuclear codes.” appeared briefly outside the courthouse. in the Stormy Daniels case, Joe Tacopina,
don’t matter. They invoke freedom in MAGA minions are forever trying to Earlier she saw fit to compare Trump to tried to grab a document from Ari Mel-
opposing an assault weapons ban even impose their alternate reality. For ex- such arrestees as Nelson Mandela and ber during an interview on MSNBC. The
as they push bans on abortion, vaccines, ample, those exploiting the Nashville Jesus Christ. consigliere in The Godfather had greater
literature, history and drag queen read- school shooter’s reported gender iden- There are signs that Trump’s hold on decorum. Tacopina and his client de-
ing time. Thus they ignore real threats in tity to engage in group blame ignore his supporters is weakening, despite his serve each other.
favor of culture war incitements. what the Human Rights Campaign not- dramatics and the media circus of news But the rest of us do not deserve either
Another ploy is the quaint assertion ed: “that transgender and non-binary helicopters following his motorcade, a of them. If the Republican Party wins
that it is unseemly to bring a former people are much more likely to be vic- scene that recalled O.J. Simpson’s car the next election after doubling down in
president to justice. Any concern about tims of violence, rather than the perpe- chase with police in 1994. But voter sup- defense of a compulsive liar, grifter and
unseemliness should also extend to trator of it.” pression and election denial remain in wannabe dictator, the rule of law will be
Trump’s unseemly behavior as presi- Republicans, intent on dividing the the Republican playbook. gone.
dent. country to gain power, respond to trag- One rather desperate tactic on Trump’s Let us rise to our best to defeat the
Respect is a two-way street, and he edy by seeking scapegoats rather than behalf is the claim that his indictment fascists, for we may not get another
did much to disrespect the office of pres- solutions. boosts his gangsta cred. Benny Johnson chance. █
ident. We do not have kings; the presi- Trumpists are flooding the zone, es- of Turning Point USA said after the in- Richard J. Rosendall is a writer and activ-
dent is a public servant, and when he so pecially on social media, with projecting dictment, “Democrats just turned Don- ist at rrosendall@me.com. Copyright © 2023
egregiously serves himself instead, fail- and gaslighting. One tactic to “keep your ald Trump into Tupac.” by Richard J. Rosendall. All rights reserved.
04.07.23 █ dallasvoice 7
Abounding Prosperity founder has died
A LEADER LOST
Kirk Myers-Hill will be weekend of events was located across Abounding Prosperity and Dallas South-
remembered as creator of draws thousands the street from AP ern Pride gave voice and power to people
of people from out Inc.’s original head- who had been overlooked and ignored.
South Dallas AIDS agency
of town and anoth- quarters. HIV test- “Dallas County is a lesser place for
and Dallas Southern Pride er 10,000 or so lo- ing was part of the his leaving but so much better because
cal participants for original menu of he was with us. May he rest in power,”
DAVID TAFFET | Senior Staff Writer parties, ballroom services offered by Daniel added.
taffet@dallasvoice.com events, workshops the start-up agency. The reaction from those leading the
and a huge picnic. Myers-Hill said fight against HIV across the region was
eople gathered out- This year’s Dallas at the time that of- swift.
side Abounding Southern Pride is ten when someone AIDS Walk South Dallas founder
Prosperity headquar- scheduled for June- tested positive, Auntjuan Wiley and AIDS Services Dal-
ters on Martin Luther teenth weekend. he’d walk across las CEO Traswell Livingston both stood
King Jr. Boulevard “A lot of people the street with them vigil on the sidewalk outside AP head-
Tuesday morning, looked up to Kirk,” to introduce them quarters and expressed their shock at the
April 4, as news of said James Gipson to the doctor and news.
the death of the agen- of the Afiya Center. make sure they got “Kirk was a good friend, and this loss
cy’s founder, Kirk Myers-Hill, spread. “He was Dad. He immediate care. is personal,” said DeeJay Johannessen,
As crowds filled the sidewalk in front of took a lot of people As AP, Inc. grew, CEO of HELP Center for LGBT Health
the building, grieving family and staff under his wing.” it moved its head- and Wellness in Arlington. ”But my
remained inside the office, asking for An area pastor who came by AP Inc. quarters a few blocks away to the cor- thoughts are with the Black community
privacy “so we may process and mourn to pay his respects called Myers-Hill ner of MLK Jr. Boulevard and 175. After and those he served. What a tremendous
the loss of our beloved leader.” a great friend and brother. He said his Prism Health moved its South Dallas loss this is. He was a powerhouse.”
Myers-Hill, who often worked nights contribution to the community was tre- clinic to Dolphin Road, Myers-Hill rent- Former Legacy Cares Executive Direc-
and early mornings in his office, was mendous. ed additional space nearby to open AP, tor Melissa Grove said she was stunned
found unresponsive at his desk as staff “We get credit for what Kirk did,” the Inc.’s own clinic. and saddened by the news, and Re-
arrived on Tuesday morning, April 4. pastor said. Myers-Hill fought for funding as the source Center CEO Cece Cox called My-
“I am just devastated,” longtime com- Another person said Myers-Hill’s number of HIV cases continued to grow ers-Hill a mentor.
munity leader Betty Neal said when she work “humanized HIV” and de-stigma- among the Black community. In Texas, “It leaves a giant loss and heartache,”
heard the news. tized the virus in the local community. Blacks make up 11 percent of the popu- Cox said. “He contributed so many
Her comment was typical of the reac- “His efforts brought change to South lation, but represent 38 percent of peo- things in terms of services and programs
tion by members of the Black communi- Dallas,” she said. ple living with HIV. at Abounding Prosperity.”
ty, government officials and leaders of Buster Snapp Craft, who first met As part of its statement to the press, She called Dallas Southern Pride a
other HIV organizations around DFW. Myers-Hill more than 25 years ago at AP, Inc. staff announced its offices will significant institution and, in terms of
Myers-Hill founded Abounding Pros- St. Luke Community United Methodist be closed until further notice. numbers of participants and impact on
perity in 2005 in response to the grow- Church, said news of his friend’s death the community, compared it to Black Tie
ing number of cases of HIV in the Black left him in “complete shock.” Reaction Dinner and DIFFA.
community. As noted in a press release “Over the years,” Snapp Craft said in a “The events he created for the Black
written by his staff shortly after his social media post, “I watched Kirk grow As news of Myers-Hill’s death spread, community built friendships and creat-
death, he “was a tireless advocate for the in various capacities, confront some real- reaction came in from political leaders. ed organizations,” Cox said, noting that
health and wellness of the Black family, ly challenging circumstances that would Deputy Mayor Pro Tem Omar Nar- at a time when public resources weren’t
particularly Black LGBTQ+ community test his faith and eventually evolve into vaez called Myers-Hill “a pillar in Dal- going to the Black community in a pro-
members in Dallas.” this larger-than-life public persona and las,” adding that “his legacy will live portional way, Myers-Hill got those
But his efforts reached far beyond that leader. At his core, my brother Kirk was forever through his work and advocacy funds redirected.
community. He coordinated vaccina- a leader. Yes, he could be very strong- through Abounding Prosperity. The im- He was “an important voice for the
tion and information efforts to bring the willed but most visionaries are, and Kirk pact he made was felt across Dallas, and Black community for HIV prevention
mpox epidemic under control through- was a visionary extraordinaire.” I am extremely saddened to have lost a and treatment,” Cox said. █
out North Texas in 2022 and was recog- dear friend.” Community vigil and balloon release
nized for his work in that area during His mission “I am saddened by the loss of Kirk My- is set for 6-8 p.m. Saturday, April 8, at
a regional Zoom conference with the ers-Hill,” Dallas County Commission- Trigg-Myers Prosperity Park, 2215 Warren
White House. From the beginning, Myers-Hill’s goal er Dr. Theresa M. Daniel said. “He was Ave., to celebrate the life and legacy of Kirk
He also created Dallas Southern Pride was to get those with HIV into treat- a force in the LGBTQ community, the Myers-Hill. The family asks that in lieu of
and developed it into one of the largest ment. African-American community and the flowers, donations be directed to Abounding
Black Pride celebrations in the U.S. The Prism Health’s South Dallas clinic HIV-positive community. His work with Prosperity, Inc.
8 dallasvoice.com █ 04.07.23
High end vs. economy
DRIVE
The Mercedes EQE and the
Chevy Bolt EUC: Opposite
bands on the EV spectrum
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Those bitches are expensive! But there
are affordable options.
Hailing from opposite bands on
the EV spectrum are the 2023 Mer-
cedes-Benz EQE 350 and the 2023 Chev-
role Bolt EUV, and one of these could be
your dreamy new EV. Chevy Bolt EUC, left and Mercedes Benz EQE350, right
els. torque through the all-wheel-drive sys- It’s a handsome devil.
2023 Mercedes-Benz EQE350 Inside, expansive wood panels the tem. It runs 0-60 mph in just 5.6 seconds. Inside, designers graced the Bolt with
dash while flatscreen gauges and large Charging is accomplished in 9.5 hours a sweeping new dash harboring a wid-
Mercedes rolls into the future with touchscreen integrate technology. It on a 220v home charger or 10-80 percent er touchscreen, flybridge center console
saturating luxury and tech wrapped in a takes a hot minute to master, but it’s easy in just 30 minutes on a DC fast charger. and twin-panel sunroof. Heated/venti-
slippery new design. to access navigation, Apple/Android Range is about 240 miles. lated front seats, heated rear seats, Bose
Gone are the traditional chrome grille connectivity and drenching Bermester With battery weight low in the chassis, audio and automatic climate control add
and the star on hood, both replaced by 3D audio. drivers can toss the heavy sedan with comforts.
a sweeping aerodynamic shape. Viewed Ethereal lighting encircles the dash, abandon. It slips through city traffic with Tap into navigation, wireless Ap-
head-on, it’s an amorphous blob with doors and seats at night. Adaptive cruise, bursts of torque, but wafts down the in- ple/Android connectivity and wireless
a big star hung on a black background automatic emergency braking, lane keep terstate with that iron sponge feeling phone charging. All imaginable safety
embedded with smaller stars. But from assist, rear cross path detection and lane of Mercedes past. Four-wheel steering devices are present.
the side, it channels the CLS four-door change assist augment safety. turns rear wheels opposite 10 degrees The car is rated 247 miles all-electric
coupe profile for clean airflow. Harbored within the sleek skin are to provide compact car maneuvering or range. Ample 200 horsepower and 266
Check details like 20-inch wheels and lithium ion batteries and twin motors to turn in the same direction to provide sta- lb.-ft. of torque enable a rapid 0-60 mph
digital headlamps with millions of pix- send 288 horsepower and 391 lb.-ft. of bility at speed. sprint in under 7 seconds. All-wheel-
The EQE350 costs $74,900 or a few drive is not available, but the car is whis-
Check out the EV options at EarthX grand more with 4MATIC. per quiet with instant power. Just tap
and zoom.
EarthX Earth Day Expo 2023, billed as “the world’s largest green gathering,” comes to Fair
Park in Dallas April 21-23. 2023 Chevy Bolt EUV Optional Super Cruise allows hands-
Admission to the Expo is free, but those planning to attend are encouraged to register off driving on approved highways, but
so they can take advantage of the innovative experience planner that lets guests tailor their How about similar performance and sensors on the steering column ensure
schedules and select from a range of events and experiences that align with their personal technology to the EQE for nearly $50k you’re paying attention. It’s fantastic for
interests. less? Unlike the Mercedes, the 2023 long treks and felt natural after a few
One of the experiences available is the Electric Vehicle and Alternative Fuel Showcase and
Chevy Bolt EUV can drive itself. miles.
Ride-and-Drive.
The showcase and Ride & Drive will feature all aspects of EVs, BEV, PHEV and FCEV mod- It’s billed as a crossover, but the EUV Recharging is not fast, taking 75 min-
els and styles and will include electric cars and trucks, EV charging solutions and e-mobility is just a tall car with step-in height and utes for 80 percent recharge on a DC fast
options to demonstrate the importance of electric vehicles to the environment. flip-down rear seats for luggage, bicy- charger or 7.5 hours on a 240v home
Visitors can expect to see battery electric vehicles (BEVs) that rely on electricity and are cles and gear. Recent updates include charger.
rechargeable via a plug-in outlet; plug-in hybrid electric vehicles (PHEVs) that are powered by
a facelifted nose that brings a sleeker Prices start at just $26,500 for the Bolt
gasoline and electricity with batteries charge via an outlet and use gas to extend the range
when the electric battery is due for a recharge; and hybrid electric vehicles (HEVs) that are vibe with tight creases. Narrow squinty or $27,800 for the EUV.
similar to plug-in hybrid electrics, using gasoline and electricity, relying on the electric motor running lamps over stealthy triangular Storm forward! █
when driving and gas when increasing load or speed. inserts for LED headlamps plus a float- Send comments to Casey at AutoCasey@
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So if you want an electric vehicle, plan to upgrade service in my particular ga- to run under my
on installing a home charger. rage. After a thorough assessment, my garage door. Run-
house was upgraded from 100 amp to ning wires and a
Upgraded electrical service 200 amp service, kicking out the old fuse plug from the elec-
box for a new, higher capacity breaker trical panel plus
The usual quote is it will cost less than box. Of course, that also required the purchasing and in-
$1,000 to install an EV charger, especial- electrician to bring the outside meter box stalling the charger
ly if subsidized by an automaker as part and aerial weather head up to code. came to $2,000.
of the purchase or lease price. That may Just the 200 amp upgrade was $3,680. (If I lived in a
be true if you live in a newer home with newer home, that
a 240v garage outlet (unlikely) or have Getting charged up would have been
200 amp service that can handle the load almost all of the ex-
of a charger. But when I inquired about That was the hard part, but not all of pense.)
having a charger installed, I had neither it. My next decision was what charger That’s a grand
in my 1955 ranch-style house’s two-car to buy and where to install it. I wanted total of $5,680 and
garage. to be able to use it for cars stored in the six hours of work
No doubt, electricians are actively garage or, as is usually the case with my (without house-
seeking EV charger installations. It’s test cars, in the driveway. Mine would be hold power) — a
good business once they determine the installed on the garage side wall near the long way from the
nuances of installation. Go to almost any door. “under $1,000” and
local electrician’s website and “EV Char- I went on the local utility provider’s quick hook-up I’ve often seen promised. Just click out of its holder, plug into the
ger Installation” will be at the front. Al- website, which had a page of suggest- Overall, though, I’m very pleased with car’s charge port and wait for lights to
most everybody will eventually have an ed chargers, specifications and pricing. the quality of work and level of knowl- change color to confirm connection. A
EV charger installed, so reputable long- Most are under $700. edge from my electrician. He knew ex- few hours later, the car is ready to go.
time electricians (and I assume some dis- With the help of my electrician, I chose actly what was required and helped me Easy as that.
reputable ones, too) are quickly getting a universal charger from ChargePoint make all of the right decisions for my Storm forward! █
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04.07.23 █ dallasvoice 11High laurels,
big work
ON THE TABLE
Executive Chef Terance Jenkins, Pastry Chef Bryan Mendoza, and Executive Chef Owner
Michelle Carpenter. (Photo by Kate Voskova)
Restaurant Beatrice basks in its
Dallas Voice: Congratulations! How was
James Beard nomination, but
you and your team’s reaction to the
there’s always work to do to big news? Michelle Carpenter: Thank
reform the restaurant industry you! The original nomination was a
shocker because the Beard Foundation
doesn’t give nominees notice. We’re a
RICH LOPEZ | Staff writer small business, and I’ve been working in
rich@dallasvoice.com the industry for 35 years. I am acquainted
with working studiously to build custom-
n late March, the news hit that ers one-by-one. That’s really the only
lesbian-owned Restaurant kind of success I’ve ever known.
Beatrice was up for a James What’s this feeling like then? Being a
Beard Foundation Award, finalist is a new feeling. We can’t label it
and owner/Chef Michelle yet — some kind of mix of gratitude and
Carpenter and her team are shock. Whatever feeling we have prob-
up for Best New Restaurant. ably won’t sink in — settle — until after
The Oak Cliff-based eatery they announce the winner in June. For
will learn on June 5 in Chicago if they the first semi-finalist notice, our vendors
take the gold. heard the news, and they texted us. We
didn’t know until other people told us.
Once the news broke, Carpenter —
who also owns Zen Sushi — is busi- This time, we just checked the news.
er than before, and, “For that, we are When you received the news, what
grateful,” she said. But she did take the happened first? Like anyone else, it was
time to talk with Dallas Voice about the a great feeling of validation and recog-
nomination and what it means to op- nition. Working to change the industry
is reform work. Reform work is met with
erate a restaurant that recognizes more
resistance, every day, all the time. We
than just the menu.
haven’t really had time to celebrate.
12 dallasvoice.com █ 04.07.23We’re busy with guests and restaurant industry have to be so wasteful, sexist,
operations. homophobic or racist? Of course not.
How do you describe Restaurant Be- You and your team certainly represent
atrice? Contemporary Louisiana. I am a unique perspective. Every incoming
half-Cajun, and my co-executive chef, generation redefines what it means to
Terance Jenkins, is Creole. We offer be human. It is due to the legacy of
two concepts in one location — casual civil rights advocates of yore — which
boils on the patio and a more formal fine includes the work of LGBTQ activists —
dining interior — And this represents the and it is due to the young protestors that
two different facets of how great Louisi- carved the narrowest of corridors that a
ana food is. face like mine and a face like Terance’s
What led you to open this restau- could be recognized at the regional and
rant? Restaurant Beatrice was the other national level.
part of my identity that I had not shared Terance and I were groomed in kitchens
to my supporters. Opening Restaurant that were abusive and hot-tempered, and
Beatrice made me feel I was able to all of that was normalized. Faces like my
finally pay tribute to my father’s Cajun own have been in the industry for ages.
side. Zen Sushi honored my Japanese But marginalized folks in the service
heritage. My dad was a Cajun airman industry are generally invisible.
who married a Japanese woman from This recognition of chefs for their own
Tokyo. I was born in Tokyo and spent the biographies and personal integrity is still
first five years of life in Japan. developing in mainstream culture. This is
Restaurant Beatrice is emblematic of my a kind of a lifetime recognition I did not
life in Louisiana and pays tribute to my anticipate. I’m grateful I am the benefi-
Mamaw, Beatrice Carpenter. ciary of this kind of reckoning that has
What do you feel Restaurant Beatrice spread into the culinary world.
has that stood out to the James Beard I do not have faith that, had Restaurant
Foundation? JBF recognized us for un- Beatrice opened five years earlier, we
dergoing B-Corp certification and trying would have been recognized for any of
to live our values. The toughest lesson our operational differences. We certainly
that I had to learn — I am still learning have made our mistakes, but Restau-
— as a chef was that making good food rant Beatrice operates with this larger
isn’t enough. Dining is about the overall responsibility in mind. We have endless
experience. unlearning to do.
What do you like about owning
and operating a restaurant here
in Dallas and particularly in Oak
Cliff? Oak Cliff is my ’hood. I can’t
imagine living anywhere else. I
never feel like I don’t belong. As
a restaurant owner in the Bishop
Arts, I have always been proud
of the fact that not only are the
retailers and restaurants indepen-
dent, but so many of the opera-
tors are BIPOC and/or LGBTQ+.
d
Black, brown, queer, trans,
straight, white, working class
Duck and Andouille Gumbo, Photo by Kate Voskova and upper crust folks — almost
anyone can feel comfortable in
There was a worldwide reckoning that Oak Cliff. Most neighborhoods are not so
happened during the pandemic. Today, inclusive.
younger generations are questioning I am able to make a direct impact in the
if the means justify the ends. What is very neighborhood that I live in and work
the point of making the very best food in. Over 70 percent of my staff are locals.
on earth if the restaurants are being It’s our neighborhood.
wasteful of the earth’s resources or
I don’t happen to be located here. I don’t
exploitative of marginalized groups? If
just work here. I’m investing in the better-
women are being abused in the kitch-
ment and empowerment of Oak Cliff, a
ens and BIPOC are being underpaid
part of the city that has been and contin-
compared to their white counterparts?
ues to be under-resourced. Restaurant
If queer folks are being fired for being
Beatrice is a product of Oak Cliff so this
queer? If line cooks and chefs are throw-
success is OC’s success, too.
ing away meat and vegetable scraps that
can easily be repurposed?
Restaurant Beatrice is located at 1111
Then what is the meaning of being the
“best?” Do paradigms of the culinary
N. Beckley Ave. RestaurantBeatrice.com.
04.07.23 █ dallasvoice 13Life on the road
BEHIND THE CURTAINS
‘Anastasia’ cast member is all
Anastasia plays as part of the ATTPAC
about living his best theater life Broadway at the Center series through
Saturday, April 8, at the Winspear.
RICH LOPEZ | Staff writer Written by Terrence McNally, with
rich@dallasvoice.com music and lyrics by Stephen Flaherty
and Lynn Ahrens, the show centers on
hese are exciting the true story of a young woman who
days for dancer and investigates her past, leading her to an
actor Louis Brogna. aristocratic family.
He and the rest of Brogna found that family is a big
the cast of Anastasi- theme with this show, whether it be cho-
aland in Dallas this sen or natural. That goes for offstage,
week for another too.
stop on Brogna’s na- “I think that’s why I love this show.
tional tour debut. And this ensemble cast There’s this happenstance where she
member is soaking it all in. runs across Vlad and Demetri who be-
“It’s going so great. I have lots of pro- come her chosen family, much like a
fessional experience, but nothing on this queer chosen family,” he said. “That
scale,” Brogna said by phone from Ama- helps her discover who she is.”
rillo during Anastasia’s run there. “It’s all And with his castmates, Brogna said,
very unique, but I love this show.”
LIFE, Page 20 Louis Brogna
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30 years of love
and progress
IN PERSPECTIVE
Looking back on where to have
kids
we’ve been, ahead to someday,
where we’re headed thought
she
y spouse would
Helen and have
I recently to give
celebrated up that
our 30th dream
anniversa- when she
ry. While started
that’s not dating a
a record-breaking number, we’ve nev- woman.
ertheless experienced many changes For my
in both our relationship and in society part, I was a few years younger, and the
during our three decades together. idea of kids wasn’t on my radar screen
At a time when the LGBTQ commu- as I focused on the transition from grad-
nity is being attacked on all sides, this uate school to gainful employment.
personal milestone also reminded me Two things shifted my perspective.
that despite the many challenges for The first was when my brother-in-law
LGBTQ folks right now, progress can and his wife became parents, and I got
happen and queer joy is real. an up-close look at what early parent-
In 1993, when we started dating, hood could be.
LGBTQ parents were far less visible than The second was 9/11. I had been
today. Helen, who had always wanted working on the top floor of the World
18 dallasvoice.com █ 04.07.23Financial Center, right next to the World declare that same-sex couples had the
Trade Center, until two business days right to marry. Initially, only in-state cou-
before that date when I took a new posi- ples could do so, however, and we lived
tion in the company’s New Jersey office. elsewhere.
Instead of being on the commuter train Then, while I was staying home with
under WTC at 8:46 a.m. when the first our son, Helen got a job in Massachu-
plane hit, I was driving into a suburban setts. Her new company no longer of-
parking lot. fered health insurance for unmarried
I realized suddenly just how short our partners, so we had to marry for me to
time in this life could be, and I knew I be covered. We therefore planned for
didn’t want to miss the opportunity to and had our wedding in the span of two
be a parent. weeks — and we still like to joke about
I suspected Helen and I would be a our “shotgun wedding” after 13 years
good parenting team. We agreed on the together.
core values and skills we wanted to teach By total coincidence, the day we chose
our child, but we each brought different was Nov. 18, three years to the day af-
things to the table. ter the Massachusetts Supreme Judicial
I grew up on the East Coast; she on the Court decision that made it legal. Now,
West. She’s an engineer; I’m a literature we always have a small celebration in
and history geek. I’m an athlete who’s November, too (because it’s an excuse
been competitive in several sports; she for more cake), but our April anniversa-
prefers to get her exercise gardening or ry is our real one.
building things. (We’re both always up Today, too, LGBTQ families and indi-
for a good hike in the woods, though.) viduals across the LGBTQ spectrum are
We figured we could expose our child far more visible in real life, in the media
to a variety of activities and experiences, and in children’s books and television. I
and he would find his own path among envy today’s families that have such re-
(or beyond) them. (Spoiler: He has.) sources, though I know they have new
When Helen and I began our journey challenges as well.
to parenthood via reciprocal in vitro fer- Helen and I have been together half
tilization (my egg, her womb), no state our lives, through six interstate moves
had yet enacted marriage equality. We and several career changes for each of
knew we would need to take steps to se- us. We’ve supported each other through
e cure my legal parentage (something still the deaths of all four of our parents. We
recommended even today for nongesta- met as graduate students and now have
tional or nongenetic parents in married a son in college.
same-sex couples, unfortunately). A law- If there’s a secret to having a relation-
yer helped us become only the second ship last this long, I’m not sure what it is.
RIVF couple to get a pre-birth parentage I think we started with a good founda-
order in the state. The first had gotten tion of both common interests and com-
e theirs just a month before. We were hap- plementary differences. We delight in
t py to be part of a burgeoning trend. each other’s company but also do things
We were hardly pioneers, though. Out separately. Yes, we argue sometimes,
e LGBTQ parents had been known since but after this many years, we know that
the time of World War II, mostly in the storms will blow over. And I think we’ve
a context of cases that denied them child never forgotten that ineffable something
custody after divorce from different-sex that drew us to each other in the first
y spouses. The 1970s saw more two-mom place.
e couples and single women and even Although LGBTQ rights are under re-
n some queer dads starting their families newed attack right now, I’m heartened
- together. And three years before we start- by thinking back on all the change we’ve
ed dating, a Newsweek article contained seen and know is possible. And thinking
. what seems like the first documented in- of the love we have, I know why I want
w stance of the term “gayby boom.” to keep fighting. █
t By sheer coincidence, our time as par- Dana Rudolph is the founder and publish-
- ents has paralleled a spike in rights and er of Mombian (mombian.com), a GLAAD
visibility for queer couples and families. Media Award-winning blog and resource di-
n The year our son was born, Massachu- rectory, plus a searchable database of 1200+
d setts became the first state in the U.S. to LGBTQ family books.
04.07.23 █ dallasvoice 19LIFE, From Page 14 he’s found his own new family. “Oh yeah, they are [family], and we’ve built these incredible connections. I know I’ll be seeing these people proba- bly for the rest of my life,” he said. The story doesn’t lend itself to really any gay storylines, and Brogna says only a couple of characters are queer-coded — like his second act feature as the club’s head waiter and bouncer. Still, Brogna said, he does find a heart in the show that speaks to his own gay identity. “The show is a great story for young women. It tells them they can be what- ever they want and to reach for their dreams,” he said. That also resonates with young gay children. When he has some downtime, Brogna said he likes to take to the streets of whatever city the show is performing in. The cast of Anastasia (Photo by Evan Zimmerman) He describes it as a privilege of touring. last April and went onstage last May, so myself in this time.” he said. “I know other shows have more “I love exploring a city as much as I he’s got a year under his belt. But he also Until then, Brogna is going to werk queer representation or drag queens, but have time to,” he said. “I would never knows what’s ahead. the magic of theater as much as he can to it’s still amazing to know the represen- have this opportunity if I wasn’t on the “I know all good things come to an bring a positive message and representa- tation is onstage without queer trauma road with this show.” end, and I’ll be hustling and pounding tion to the stage. — just our stories or characters for ev- Brogna talks about his Anastasia time the pavement once this is over,” he said. “I hope that I’m able to bring some eryone to see.” █ with enthusiasm. He joined the company “But I know I’ve learned a lot more about joy or freedom or hope to audiences,” For tickets, visit ATTPAC.org. 20 dallasvoice.com █ 04.07.23
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PLAN YOUR WEEK - The Gay Agenda... Our LGBTQ community calendar!
n April 13-15: Lyle Lovett n April 15-16: Dallas Festival of the Arts
The country crooner will always be in our hearts Formerly known as Turtle Creek Spring Arts Festival
when he covered Tammy Wynette’s “Stand By Your includes an outdoor art gallery featuring 125 local
Man.” He performs three nights here in Dallas at the and regional painters, photographers, sculptors,
Majestic Theatre. AXS.com. metalwork, glass artists, jewelers and more from
10 a.m.-5 p.m. on Saturday and 11 a.m.-5 p.m.
n April 14: Arts District Changing on Sunday at Reverchon Park, 3505 Maple Ave.
Perspectives Block Party DallasFestivaloftheArts.net.
A free cultural festival features Close-Act Theatre’s
Birdmen, a trio of large, illuminated birdlike animals n April 16: David Sedaris
that extend 23 feet high and 19 feet long with a Arts and Letters Live presents David Sedaris
wingspan of 13 feet that will come to life on the at 7:30 p.m. McFarlin Auditorium, 6405 Boaz St.
streets of the Dallas Arts District coming from the
Netherlands, Close-Act Theatre is renowned for Have an event coming up? Email your
interactive street theatre. Food trucks, artisans information to Managing Editor Tammye Nash
and a community muralist. at nash@dallasvoice.com or Senior Staff Writer
David Taffet at taffet@dallasvoice.com by
n April 15: 25th Anniversary Monday at 5 p.m. for that week’s issue.
LGBT Law Section Look for extended listings online at
25th anniversary celebration of the LGBT Law DallasVoice.com
Scarborough Renaissance Festival, located at 3511 FM 66 in Waxahachie opens
Saturday, April 8, at 10 a.m. The festival runs Saturdays and Sunday through May 28,
Section of the State Bar of Texas at the
and closes Memorial Day Monday, May 29. Go early, go often to get in on all the fun.
Arts District Mansion, 2101 Ross Ave.
Easter returns to Turtle Creek Park, Sunday,
n April 15: Wigchella Gaybingo April 9, with the Dallas Symphony Orchestra
n Red for community events n April 9: Easter Sunday Gaybingo at 6 p.m. Play for a chance to win cash Brass Quintet performing, photos with the
n Blue for arts and entertainment and prizes. Station 4, 3911 Cedar Springs Road. Easter Bunny, the Pooch Parade and more
n Purple for sports n April 9: Easter in the Park Tickets at myresourcecenter.org/gaybingo.
n Green for nightlife Dallas Symphony Orchestra brass quintet concert,
n Orange for civic events and holidays Pooch Parade, photos with the Easter bunny and n April 15: Legacy’s Neon Jungle
more from 1-4 p.m. in Turtle Creek Park. Crozier Hall, 2218 Bryan St., Suite 105
n Weekly: Frontrunners from 7-10 p.m.
Running club for the LGBTQ community and allies n Through April 9: ‘Disaster the Musical’
of DFW. Meet at 7:15 p.m. on Wednesdays and For a good time, head to Grapevine for this campy n April 15: Drag brunch
8:30 a.m. on Saturdays at the corner of Hall Street offering. Disaster is imminent for high profile Monthly drag brunch featuring Layla Larue
and Turtle Creek Boulevard in Turtle Creek Park for celebs on a cruise ship in 1979, but thankfully at 11 a.m. and 2 p.m. at Ebb & Flow,
a one-hour walk/run on the Katy Trail. the soundtrack of retro hits helps it all go down 7300 Lone Star Drive C 125, Plano.
smoothly. Runway Theatre. RunwayTheatre.com. 18+ only. Ebbandflowtx.com.
APRIL n April 11: Coalition for Aging LGBT n April 15: HRC Spring Luncheon
n April 7: Good Friday LGBT Life and Financial Planninng: Protecting and HRC DFW Spring Luncheon – Equality
Respecting Relationships from 5:30-7:30 p.m. at Matters features a panel that includes
n April 7-30: ‘Into the Woods’ Arts District Mansion, 2101 Ross Ave. Reserve a state Rep. Julie Johnson, Tari Hanneman,
Community fave Joel Ferrell directs this fairy tale free spot at Eventbrite.com. CFA.LGBT. director of the health and aging program
mashup musical by Steven Sondheim for the at HRC and Leslie McMurray, transgender
Dallas Theater Center. Performances held at the n April 11: ‘The Musical Theatre Game Show’ education and advocacy associate
Wyly Theatre. DallasTheaterCenter.com. Texas Pride Realty Group’s Mikey Abrams shifts for Resource Center. Warwick
gears into game show host to test your show tune Melrose Hotel, 3015 Oak
n April 8-May 29: Scarborough knowledge with interactive games and trivia. Lawn Ave. from 10:30
Renaissance Festival 7:30 p.m. at Pocket Sandwich Theatre, 1104 Elm a.m.-12:30 p.m.
Open Saturdays and Sundays and Memorial St., Carrollton. Free. MikeyAbramsRealtor.com. Tickets at
Day Monday from 10 a.m.-7 p.m. 2511 FM 66, hrcdfw.org.
Waxahachie. SRFestival.com n April 12: Carrollton Pride Meetup
Meetup from 7-8 p.m. at Nico’s Cocina,
n April 6-8: ‘Anastasia’ 3065 N. Josie Lane, Carrollton.
Broadway at the Center presents the musical
Anastasia. Winspear Opera House, n April 12: Same-sex spouse grief group
2403 Flora St. ATTPAC.org. Grief support group for people who have lost a
same-sex spouse or partner meets on Zoom
n April 8: Dallas Spring Arts Festival on the second Wednesday of the month from
Bruce Wood Dance participates in a free event at 6:30-8 p.m. For notifications, contact Richard
Klyde Warren Park from 1-5 p.m. DeKnock at tastefullyrichard@gmail.com.
04.07.23 █ dallasvoice 23Jenny Block
GIRL ON GIRLS
Driving Miss Jeanne:
Highway Meditations
A couple of weeks ago I drove my
grandmother, Jeanne, from Michigan
to Florida. She’s actually my wife’s
step-grandmother. But Jeanne says that’s
just a technicality, that “step” business
and the “relative by marriage” business.
I am her granddaughter.
Even without knowing anything else,
it’s hard not to love someone who says
things like that.
Then there’s the fact that she’s lived
the most marvelous life: Was married
to the love of her life for almost 50 years
before he passed. Traveled the world.
Attended balls. Had a successful career
at a time when that was not possible for
many women. Had a beautiful family
and loads of friends. Filled retirement
days with tennis games and long walks
in the sun.
She’s smart and sharp witted and just,
well, fun to be with. for a couple of hours leaving Atlanta worked together to get things running ney for a number of reasons, and there
Jeanne has been going to Florida for when my navigating skills were more smoothly again. was no one else to do it for many of those
the winter months for years, first with necessary than my driving skills. We ate The whole experience got me to think- same reasons.
her husband and then alone once he at Cracker Barrel (Yes. I know. Not my ing about karma. When Jeanne needed It makes me sad to think about it.
passed. For a while now, family mem- choice obviously). And we stopped at help, she had no trouble getting it, even We reap what we sow.
bers have given her a lift. It just makes every Buc-ee’s we could find. It was her from a brand new, step-granddaughter And, so, I will continue to tend to my
sense that she not make that trek alone. first Buc-ee’s experience. She LOVED it. by marriage who was immediately pro- gardens. I hope you’ll do the same.
This year, though, the usual suspects And I loved that she loved it. moted to granddaughter. Why? Because
weren’t available. We talked and laughed and listened to Jeanne is kind and thoughtful and gen-
I had always joked that I would be Coffee House radio and my Taylor Swift erous. She loves without hesitation, and
happy to do it if she could handle my
slow driving and Dateline podcasts. So
playlist.
I got road rage in traffic, and she —
she considers others before herself.
The world could learn a lot from my
this week’s solution
when she called to make the request, I sweetly and incredibly unsuccessfully grandmother. Sure, she’s quirky and set
didn’t hesitate to say yes. — tried to calm my nerves. We shared a in her ways (which, by the way, is exact-
It was fun and hard and eye-open- king-sized bed at the Hampton Inn and ly how I plan to be when I’m pushing
ing — and I couldn’t be happier that I the baked fish at a diner. She lost her ear- 90). But she has also created a legacy of
agreed to the adventure. Jeanne took the ring back, and I discovered we left the kindness and acceptance. It can’t be easy
first shift, which I think she will forever car door open all night in Valdosta, Ga. losing the love of your life or being the
tease me about. “I’m so glad you called It was fun and relatively easy, all step-parent/step-grandparent, or, heck,
and asked me to drive you to Florida,” things considered, barring the traffic and just getting old in a world that hasn’t
she said, ribbing me after I had drifted the last 20 minutes of the drive when I been tended to properly for a long time.
off to sleep in the car. had to pee so badly I felt like I was at a And yet she manages to do it with
The truth was, I was exhausted. I concert where I hadn’t wanted to miss enough grace that people are ready to
hadn’t slept for two nights in a row, anx- one song. jump in whenever needed.
ious about the trip. Would I be comfort- When we arrived, we encountered Someone in my own family asked me
able driving her car? What would we all sorts of dilemmas, as one does after to transport them over a number of state
talk about? What would we listen to? not being in one’s condo for three years lines a number of months ago. I reluc-
How will I manage 20 hours of driving? — a water heater that dies, a fridge that tantly agreed and then heeded my wife’s
What if? What if? What if? had to be replaced, a few cracked tiles, a and sister’s and daughter’s urgings to █ browse █ submit
I needn’t having worried — about bulge in the ceiling. decline because it would be unsafe phys-
For a more complete Community To submit an item for inclusion in
anything. I stayed for five days, and my wife ically and emotionally. It would have Calendar online, visit the Community Calendar, visit
After that, I did all of the driving, save joined me for a couple of those. We all been the absolute opposite of this jour- Tinyurl.com/dvevents. Tinyurl.com/dvevents.
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