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the Door is Open

                    21ST ANNUAL
                    NETWORKING AND
                    EDUCATIONAL
                    FORUM
                    INTERNATIONAL ACADEMY OF
                    COLLABORATIVE PROFESSIONALS

                    OCTOBER 19-29, 2020
                    VIRTUAL EDITION
The Door is Open - NETWORKING AND EDUCATIONAL FORUM 21ST ANNUAL - International Academy of Collaborative ...
The Door is Open - NETWORKING AND EDUCATIONAL FORUM 21ST ANNUAL - International Academy of Collaborative ...
21st ANNUAL NETWORKING
                                                        AND EDUCATIONAL FORUM
TABLE OF CONTENTS

1-    The Forum at a Glance

2-    Welcome Note from the President, Francesca King

3-    Important Forum Information

4-    Forum Highlights

5-    MONDAY OCTOBER, 19 & WEDNESDAY, OCTOBER 21
      Forum Agenda - Pre-Forum Institutes

6-    TUESDAY, OCTOBER 20 & THURSDAY, OCTOBER 22
      Forum Agenda - Pre-Forum Institutes

7-    FRIDAY, OCTOBER 23
      Forum Agenda for Friday

10-   SATURDAY, OCTOBER 24 & SUNDAY, OCTOBER 25
      Weekend Agenda

12-   MONDAY, OCTOBER 26
      Forum Agenda for Monday

12-   TUESDAY, OCTOBER 27
      Forum Agenda for Tuesday

12-   WEDNESDAY, OCTOBER 28
      Forum Agenda for Wednesday

12-   THURSDAY, OCTOBER 29
      Forum Agenda for Thursday

12-   Sponsors

12-   Donors

12-   Exhibitors                                         FORUM TIME ZONE CONVERSIONS
                                                         This year, the transition to virtual brings more
12-   Advertisers                                        accessibility for all Collaborative professionals
                                                         to attend across the globe. No matter where in
                                                         the world, IACP 2020 Forum will offer plenty of
                                                         content no matter where you are. Plus, access to
                                                         recordings of all 30+ workshops for a year to watch
                                                         on-demand. All times in the program are in Pacific
                                                         Daylight Time.
                                                         Check on worldtimebuddy.com to convert to your
                                                         time zone or check the agenda on the Forum site,
                                                         which will convert to your local time automatically.
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MANY THANKS TO:
IACP Board Of Directors                                     IACP Staff                                     Local Host Committee
Francesca King, President                                   Anne Tamar-Mattis                              Kevin Scudder, Past Chair
Milan, Italy                                                Executive Director                             Brian Galbraith, Co-Chair
                                                                                                           Rachel Hernandez, Co-Chair
Christopher Farish, Past President                          Alicia Chandler                                Leslie Ryland, member-at-large
Dallas, Texas, United States                                Associate Director                             Don Blythe

Anne Lucas, President-Elect                                 Dolores Puppione
Kirkland, Washington, United States                         Membership Coordinator                         CEU/CLE Subcommittee
                                                                                                           Joelle Adelson
Robert Merlin, Treasurer                                    Nikki R. Jones
                                                                                                           Kay Chan
Coral Gables, Florida, United States                        Communications Coordinator
                                                                                                           Kristen Hall
                                                                                                           Nancy Ross
Loretta Gephart, Secretary                                  Rebecca Evans
                                                                                                           Deirdre Severide
Wexford, Pennsylvania, United States                        Administrative Assistant
                                                                                                           Amy Skogerson

Kay K.W. Chan, Ad Hoc Officer
Hong Kong                                                   Forum Planning Committee                       Local Expert Subcommittee
                                                            Christopher Farish                             Barb Gordon
Rajan Chettiar
                                                            Francesca King
Singapore
                                                            Anne Lucas
                                                            Lynda Robbins
Adam Cordover                                                                                              Outreach Subcommittee
                                                            Zanita Zacks-Gabriel
Tampa, Florida, United States                                                                              Chris Arnold
                                                                                                           Jacinta Gallant
Brian Galbraith                                                                                            carl Michael rossi
Barrie, Ontario, Canada
                                                            Forum Workshop Proposal
                                                            Review Committee                               Amy Stewart

Julia McAninch                                              Stephanie Dietz
Nashville, Tennessee, United States                         William Frankenstein
                                                                                                           Sponsorship Subcommittee
                                                            Jeremy Gaies
                                                            Rana Glick                                     Erinn Hannigan
Kevin Scudder
                                                            Erinn McKee Hannigan                           Theresa Kulat
Seattle, Washington, United States
                                                            Irwin Kuhn                                     Nicola Savin

Deirdre P. Severide                                         Carolina Morsch
Delta, British Columbia, Canada                             Marília Oliveira e Telles
                                                                                                           PRESENTERS for the time and energy
                                                            Cheryl Panther                                 they have put into their sessions
Melissa Sulkowski                                           Lynda Robbins                                  and workshops.

Erie, Pennsylvania, United States                           Amy Stewart
                                                                                                           IACP would like to thank Susan Amato,
                                                            Cristi Trusler                                 Anna Davis, and Lisa Standish for
Zanita A. Zacks-Gabriel                                     Megan Yates                                    offering their expertises and services
                                                                                                           in leading yoga classes at Forum!
Erie, Pennsylvania, United States

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2020 FORUM AT A GLANCE
All times listed below are in Pacific Daylight Time

PRE-FORUM INSTITUTES                                        1:00 PM - 2:00PM                                        • Unlocking Us 5:00PM
See PFI/workshop listings for details.                      Exhibit Hall
                                                                                                                    • Tequila! 6:00PM
                                                            2:00PM - 4:00PM
MONDAY OCTOBER 19 &                                                                                                 • Cherry on Top 6:00PM
                                                            Welcome + Opening Plenary The Power
WEDNESDAY OCTOBER 21                                                                                                • Cooking from the
                                                            of Yes! (How to bring improv to your daily
9:00 a.m. - 8:00 p.m.                                                                                                 Pandemic Cookbook 7:00PM
                                                            life) with Cameron Algie
PFI 1-4
                                                            4:00PM - 5:00PM                                         • Mixing Drinks in Hong Kong 7:00PM
TUESDAY OCTOBER 20 &
                                                            Exhibit Hall
THURSDAY OCTOBER 22
6:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m.                                       4:30PM - 6:00PM                                         MONDAY OCTOBER 26
PFI 5-8                                                     Special Gathering #2 Welcome Inn: A                     6:00AM - 7:30PM
                                                            Reception for New Attendees                             Workshops 1-9
FRIDAY OCTOBER 23
3:00AM - 4:30AM                                                                                                     1:15PM - 1:45PM
Special Gathering #1 World Café                             SATURDAY OCTOBER 24                                     Yoga Break
                                                            5:00AM - 6:30AM
                                                            Special Gathering #2 Welcome Inn: A                     TUESDAY OCTOBER 27
                                                            Reception for New Attendees                             6:00AM - 7:30PM
                                                            9:00AM - 10:30AM                                        Workshops 10-17
                                                            Special Gathering #3 Ethics Café                        9:15AM - 9:45AM
                                                            11:30AM - 1:00PM                                        Yoga Break
                                                            Special Gathering #4 Peacemakers                        1:00PM - 2:00PM
                                                            Gatherings: Peacemaker Ideas                            Exhibit Hall
                                                            Special Gathering #5 Trainers Gathering
                                                            1:00PM - 2:00PM                                         WEDNESDAY OCTOBER 28
                                                            Exhibit Hall                                            7:30AM - 7:30PM
    FRIDAY SPECIAL OPPORTUNITY                              2:00PM - 4:00PM                                         Workshops 18-26
                                                            Saturday Social: Party Around the World                 1:15PM - 1:45PM
         Hear from these Educational
              Program Sponsors                              4:00PM - 5:00PM                                         Yoga Break
                FREE CLEs                                   Exhibit Hall
                                                            4:30PM - 6:00PM                                         THURSDAY OCTOBER 29
                                                            Special Gatherings #6 Trust and Estates                 7:30AM - 3:30PM
                                                                                                                    Workshops 27-32
    9:00AM - 10:00AM and                                                                                            1:15PM - 1:45PM
                                                            SUNDAY OCTOBER 25
    5:00PM - 6:00PM                                                                                                 Yoga Break
                                                            DINE AROUNDS
    Preparing the Client for Collaboration:
                                                                                                                    4:00PM - 6:00PM
    Bringing Our Family in Two                              • Taste Around the World 4:00AM
                                                                                                                    Closing Ceremonies
    Homes to your Practice presented by
                                                            • Foodie Times 4:00AM                                   & Stu Webb Lecture
    Innovation for Lawyers, Inc.
                                                                                                                    An Examination of Game Theory for Solving
                                                            • Sunday Funday 8:00AM
    10:30AM - 11:30AM                                                                                               Family Law Problems in a Collaborative
    Fairness and Divorce: Incompatible                      • Apertivo 10:00AM                                      Divorce Format with Kenneth Waldron
    Goals or Unreasonable Expectations?                     • Dinner with the Team 3:00PM
    Using Software to Examine the Options
    presented by Family Law Software                        • Anything but Fish 3:00PM
    12:00PM - 1:00PM                                        • Wine Plus 3:00PM
    Alcohol Monitoring and Parenting                        • Opine, Dine, and Wine 4:00PM
    Time presented by Soberlink
                                                            • Successes in the Collaborative World
                                                              4:00PM
                                                            • Wine Country Knit and Sip 5:00PM

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MESSAGE FROM THE PRESIDENT
                                      Welcome to the 21st Annual IACP Networking and Educational Forum and welcome to the very first
                                      IACP Virtual Forum!!

                                      Our theme this year is The Door is Open. When we chose this theme in January we had very little idea
                                      of what our Forum would be like. Certainly, we did not envision being unable to meet in person, and
                                      that we would all be attending Forum from our offices or homes.

                                      When we had to make this decision there was sadness and many concerns, but also the awareness
                                      that this awkward circumstance could be turned into a great opportunity: the opportunity to have
                                      attendees from all over the world, speaking different languages, in different time zones, all connected
                                      at the same time from their countries. While attending Forum in the past has not been easy for
                                      many professionals, especially from outside of the US, this year we can offer to all Collaborative
                                      professionals the opportunity to join and attend. Our technology offers us the possibility of having
         Francesca King               interpretations and recordings: participants will be able to attend not only from the comfort of their
                                      houses, they will also be able to follow many more workshops than usual, with their own timing and
                                      addressing their own needs.

Forum has always been an incredible educational opportunity for Collaborative professionals, and this opportunity will certainly be even
greater this year. But Forum has always been a precious moment for connections and relations, very dear to the hearts of our community.
And living in times of lack of personal connection, many of us were concerned about how a Virtual Forum could deal with this aspect. Well, I
am proud to say our Board, our Staff, our Local Host Committee worked really hard to ensure we would have connection, warmth and fun!

In the end, the Door is Open revealed itself as a very appropriate theme for our Forum, even in these weird times. What we wanted to
suggest is that the door is open to new ideas and reflections on the role of Collaborative Practice within the world of ADR. As we widen
IACP’s mission (To transform the way families resolve conflict by building a global community of Collaborative Practice and consensual
dispute resolution professionals) we wanted to host and foster a reflection on the synergies and the interaction Collaborative Practice can
play with other ADR methods, mediation above all. This reflection will be deepened at Forum, in many workshops and in many PFIs. At the
same time, the door of our community will be open to many more professionals and in many more countries than usual. While we might
feel limited in our movements, we are wide open to influences from different countries and communities, to the reflection that if something
works in a different area it might be worth considering in our jurisdiction or region.

As many of us noted in these interesting times, Collaborative Practice is a global movement and a global thought, the only way to encourage
its development worldwide is to be open, mind and soul.

And that is what we are.

 Francesca King
 President, IACP Board of Directors

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FORUM IMPORTANT INFORMATION + HIGHLIGHTS
IMPORTANT INFORMATION
HOW TO GET SUPPORT

 Visit the “Guides & Support” Section found in the
 Forum Platform Menu
 “FAQ & How To”: here you will find answers to common
 questions, user guides and short instructional videos

 Get Tech Support: contact our technical support
 team to get assistance on any issues related to Zoom,
 the forum platform or for any operational questions not
 covered under “FAQ”

 Get IACP or Forum Help: for assistance or more
 information on IACP membership questions, PFI registration,
 or any other general IACP related questions, use this tab to
 easily email Forum@collaborativepractice.com

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FORUM IMPORTANT INFORMATION + HIGHLIGHTS
IMPORTANT INFORMATION

   WHAT IS COUNT ME IN?
   Members from around the globe step up to support Collaborative Practice by generously making a donation worth one of their billable hours.
   Make sure you’re counted this year. Donate at collaborativepractice.com or visit the Count Me In! page on the Forum Platform.

   CLE/CEU
   Continuing Education Credits
   As the notebook goes to press, we have been approved for CLE credits in Ontario, British Columbia, and Iowa, with applications
   pending in California and Hong Kong. See our Certificate of Attendance at collaborativepractice.com under Forum for updates and details.
   Many thanks are due to our volunteer CLE/CEU Subcommittee for submitting these applications! Those who want to expand our credits
   are invited to join in future years.

INTERPERTATION

Thank you to our Partners
Thanks to IACP’s Global Partners Associazione Italiana
Professionisti Collaborativi (AIADC) and Instituto
Brasileiro de Praticas Colaborativas (IBPC) for working
with us to provide simultaneous translation into Italian
and Portuguese for our Opening Plenary and many of our
workshops. This collaboration allows us to reach many
more Collaborative professionals, and connect them to
some of the most experienced trainers in the field while
deepening our global connections.

Tag your Interpretation Preference on your Profile
Select “Italian Speaking” or “Portuguese Speaking”
tags under “Edit my Profile”

Easily Search for Workshops Offerings with Portuguese
or Italian Interpreters
• From Agenda use the search to tool and browse by “track”
• Select “Italian” or “Portuguese” to view interpreted
  workshops by language

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FORUM HIGHLIGHTS
VIRTUAL EXHIBITOR HALL
Attend the virtual exhibitor hall and interact and explore a
variety of exhibitor booths. Engage and interact with exhibitors,
participate in polls and download materials. Want to learn more
about an organization or set up a private one-on-one meeting with
an exhibitor? Click the “Request Info” button on their virtual booth.

  Exhibit Hall Schedule:
  Friday, October 23 | 1:00-2:00 p.m. & 4:00-5:00 p.m.
  Saturday, October 24 | 1:00 -2:00 p.m. & 4:00-5:00 p.m.
  Tuesday, October 27 | 1:00 - 2:00 p.m.

GET IN THE GAME
In the spirit of Forum fun, gear up for some friendly competition
for a chance to win free registration to 2021 Forum. Earn points for
completing different activities, visiting exhibitor booths, making a
Count Me In pledge and MORE! Visit the “Game” tab on the menu
bar for a full overview of activities, points values and how to play!

            Activities: Different activities are worth different points
            — engage with other forum attendees, connect with
            sponsors and exhibitors, get more involved with IACP
            and make the most out of your Forum experience!

            Score History: Check your personal history of activities
            and to see what you have received points for!

            Leaderboard: Follow the leader board for a list of the
            top scoring attendees and their scores.

Game play runs from 6:00AM PDT on Monday, October 19th to
3:00 PM PDT on Thursday, October 29th. Winner will be announced
during the Closing Ceremonies on October 29th.

DINE-AROUNDS
Dine-arounds are an IACP Forum staple and favorite
Each of our Board Members hosts small gatherings to bridge
connections and to promote fellowship. In the past, these events
have taken place at local restaurants near where the Forum is
being held.
This year, as we have transitioned to a virtual platform, the dine-
around options will be held online and have expanded to include a
signature drink-making session, appetizers, dinner, and even a LIVE
cooking lesson. Register to attend one or multiple dine-around
events. Our Board Members are excited to serve as your host!

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PRE-FORUM INSTITUTES
MONDAY, OCTOBER 19th - THURDSAY OCTOBER 22nd
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PRE-FORUM INSTITUTES ■ MONDAY, OCTOBER 19 AND WEDNESDAY OCTOBER 21
                    PFI #1 ■ DIVERSITY & INCLUSION:                                        PFI #3 ■ CREATING AND MAINTAINING A
                    Be the Change You Wish to See In the World                             SUCCESSFUL PRACTICE GROUP: Leadership
                                                                                           Skills for Practice Group Leaders
                    Monday October 19 and Wednesday October 21st
                    9:00 AM – 12:00 PM PDT                                                 Monday October 19 and Wednesday October 21st
                    Presenters: Barbara Burr, Natalie Goldberg,                            1:00 - 4:00PM PDT
                    and David Hoffman                                                      Presenters: Lori Gephart and Ross Evans

               Mahatma Gandhi is credited with saying,                                    We are excited to bring Practice Group
               “Be the change that you wish to see in the                                 Leaders together to share critical knowledge,
               world.” Last year, the IACP Equity & Inclusion                             skills, and resources to promote successful
               Committee presented a workshop at the 2019                                 leadership and to facilitate the growth of
               Forum focused on engaging participants in                                  strong Practice Groups around the world. This
               meaningful conversations about challenges to                workshop will help Practice Group Leaders to share in the
               increase diversity and inclusion in their home              collective experience and wisdom of Practice Group Leaders
               practice groups and sharing ideas that have                 who have experienced the same challenges, successes, and
               been tried in various regions. Now as much                  failures. We will focus on organizational issues, membership
               as ever, Collaborative Professionals are called             issues, leadership issues, and the dynamics of providing a
to have tough conversations and find meaningful ways to                    service to membership while at the same time offering the
create change in our communities. The 2020 program will                    public a resource for Collaborative Practice.
examine what is standing in the way of increasing diversity
and inclusion in our communities; and use the insights we                                  PFI #4 ■ NAVIGATING FINANCIAL
develop from this examination to forge concrete action                                     NARRATIVES WITH OUR CLIENTS
plans that will remove obstacles and achieve meaningful
change as we return to our international community of                                      Monday October 19 and Wednesday October 21st
home practice groups. Together, trainers and participants                                  5:00 - 8:00PM PDT
                                                                                           Presenters: Kristen Algert, Julia McAninch,
will learn and practice how to “be the change that [they]
                                                                                           and Cheryl Panther
wish to see in the world.
                                                                                           “There is not enough money.” - “Money
                                                                                           overwhelms me.” - “It’s my money. I earned
                    PFI #2 ■ RADICALLY RETHINKING                                          it.” - “I deserve nice things.” - “I’ll make it
                    COLLABORATION                                                          work.” - “It’s my responsibility to take care of
                    Monday October 19 and Wednesday October 21st                           my family.” - “I just want to keep the house.”
                    9:00 AM – 12:00 PM PDT                                                 – Sound familiar? Family finances are a key
                    Presenters: Nancy Cameron and Victoria Smith
                                                                                           part of divorce decision-making. Clients have
                    LIMITED TO 24 PARTICIPANTS
                                                                                           money scripts that have been formed and
                                                                                           reinforced through their life experiences,
               At a time when peacemaking has                                              which significantly impact their approach to
               garnered much of the discourse within the                   decision-making. Our own financial narratives can create
               Collaborative community, why doesn’t it                     bias, limiting our ability to be our best when working with
               feel like that when we’re doing the work?                   clients and team members. Take a deeper look into these
Is an expectation of peace and harmony realistic? Even                     money scripts and discover how to speak the financial
counterproductive? This workshop will turn our initial                     language best heard by each one.
understanding of collaboration on its head and do a deep                   We will explore our own narratives, and those of clients,
dive into the reality of conflict. Borrowing from Adam                     while sharing strategies and tools to best support our
Kahane’s ground-breaking work we will explore why, in so                   clients and work with our team through the financial
many of our cases with little trust and goodwill, we need                  decision-making process.
to abandon the expectation of a harmonious team, shared
interests, and values. Instead we need to embrace and
expect difference, employ both power and love, experiment
our way forward, and focus on what we can do rather
than why they need to change. We will learn the strategic
use of downloading, debating, dialoguing, and presencing
and applying this new way to collaborate in a challenging
case study.

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PRE-FORUM INSTITUTES ■ TUESDAY, OCTOBER 20 AND THURSDAY OCTOBER 22
                    PFI #5 ■ FINDING OUR COLLABORATIVE                                     PFI #7 ■ TRAIN THE TRAINERS
                    SUPERPOWERS: An Integrative Approach                                   Tuesday, October 20th and Thursday October 22nd
                    to Becoming a Collaborative Ninja                                      10:00AM - 1:00PM PDT
                    Tuesday, October 20th and Thursday October 22nd                        Presenter: Lisa Alexander
                    6:00 - 9:00AM PDT                                                      This full day course is for trainers looking
                    Presenters: Jacinta Gallant and Barbara Kelly          to deepen their skills to create and deliver an engaging
                Multiple skill sets are needed to truly help               training that focuses on the Collaborative ‘paradigm
                couples untangle one of life’s most important              shift’. With reference to the needs of adult learners,
                and intimate relationships. Multiple mindsets              and taking into account cultural issues in our various
                and world views abound as we build new                     worldwide communities, we will learn about organizing
                teams with each family. We need to be nimble               the overall arc of Collaborative training - from beginning
“ninjas” to be most effective in this work. In this PFI, Barbara           planning considerations to the day of training. We will
Kelly (psychologist) and Jacinta Gallant (lawyer) will lead                work on combining the various elements of education,
participants through a discovery of the distinctive skills,                information, and experience to create and deliver trainings
abilities, biases, and styles – personally and professionally              where professionals are able to experience the power
– each of us brings to our work. Be prepared to tackle                     of a collaborative paradigm shift. We will also work on
some of the obstacles that get in the way of really being                  developing more subtle training and facilitation skills, such
collaborative and uncover the riches that come from                        as working with the tension in the training room, helping
understanding ourselves better. We will share insights and                 learners move outside their comfort zones, and the art of
approaches to support your growth. This inspirational virtual              turning questions around. You will also build your repertoire
PFI will help Collaborative Professionals and Mediators in                 of experiential activities and have great fun with your
their quest to be more self-aware, effective, and nimble in                training colleagues.
their practice.
                                                                                           PFI #8 ■ EMBEDDING EMOTIONAL
                    PFI #6 ■ RADICALLY RETHINKING                                          CLOSURE INTO THE COLLABORATIVE
                    COLLABORATION                                                          PROCESS: The Role of the Divorce Coach
                    Tuesday, October 20th and Thursday October 22nd                        Tuesday, October 20th and Thursday October 22nd
                    10:00AM - 1:00PM PDT                                                   2:00 - 5:00 PM PDT
                    Presenters: Nancy Cameron and Victoria Smith                           Presenters: Yuval Berger and Stephen Sulmeyer
                    LIMITED TO 24 PARTICIPANTS                                             Separation is a complex emotional process.
               At a time when peacemaking has                                              Early on, most people find it difficult to
               garnered much of the discourse within the                                   cope with the pain amidst the process of
               Collaborative community, why doesn’t it feel                                negotiating and restructuring their future. As
               like that when we’re doing the work? Is an                  the separation progresses, the need for emotional closure
               expectation of peace and harmony realistic?                 becomes a vital part of the process. The experience of
Even counterproductive? This workshop will turn our initial                emotional closure can support life restructuring processes
understanding of collaboration on its head and do a deep                   in a healthy way. In this interactive workshop, two
dive into the reality of conflict. Borrowing from Adam                     experienced divorce coaches will discuss and explain the
Kahane’s ground-breaking work we will explore why, in                      psychology and significance of emotional closure (why some
so many of our cases with little trust and goodwill, we                    need it more than others), how knowing the reasons for the
need to abandon the expectation of a harmonious team,                      separation matters for the Collaborative process, and how
shared interests, and values. Instead we need to embrace                   closure can be achieved even when the two parties hold a
and expect difference, employ both power and love,                         different narrative for the reasons for the separation. We
experiment our way forward, and focus on what we can                       will emphasize the role of the Collaborative coach as a lead
do rather than why they need to change. We will learn the                  facilitator of emotional closure processes and embedded
strategic use of downloading, debating, dialoguing, and                    support of the Collaborative process.
presencing and applying this new way to collaborate in a
challenging case study.

       PFI #2 & PFI #6 are the same content that will be running at two
       separate times. Please select one session to attend.

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FORUM
FRIDAY, OCTOBER 23rd - THURSDAY, OCTOBER 29th
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FRIDAY, OCTOBER 23
3:00AM - 4:30AM ■ SPECIAL GATHERING #1 WORLD CAFÉ
1:00 PM - 2:00PM ■ EXHIBIT HALL
2:00PM - 4:00PM ■ WELCOME + OPENING PLENARY THE POWER OF YES! (How to bring improv to your daily life) with Cameron Algie
4:00PM - 5:00PM ■ EXHIBIT HALL
4:30PM-6:00PM ■ SPECIAL GATHERING WELCOME INN: A Reception for New Attendees

OPENING PLENARY
THE POWER OF YES! (How to bring improv into your daily life.)
Building stories, ideas, conversations, and relationships are all easier with acceptance and
agreement. Improv helps you say “Yes” to new ways of thinking, and open the door to beautiful,
effective collaboration.

About Cam Algie
Cam used to be anxious. Like, really anxious. All the time. It affected everything from his job as
a copywriter, to his ability to leave the house without panicking. Anxiety ruled his every waking
moment (and many sleepless nights). It was how he thought he’d always be. Then he tried
improv, and it changed his life.
Now Cam uses improv to help others, through Play with Fire Improv and as Lead Facilitator of                            Cameron Algie
Second City Toronto’s Improv for Anxiety Program.
Since 2013, he’s helped hundreds of individuals, groups, and corporate clients manage anxiety, connect with others, make bold
creative choices, and find the courage to be their best selves. In addition to helping companies like CIBC, Doxim, Autodesk, and
Women’s College Hospital with team building and communication, Cameron helps people understand the psychology behind
what we do.
He’s been interviewed by the BBC, CBC, Marilyn Denis Show, and the Carla Collins Show among others, about how improv helps
with mental wellness. As a performer, he’s toured North America, and now teaches improv online to people all over the world.

• Professor of Play, Play with Fire Improv
• Founder & Lead Facilitator of the Improv for Anxiety program, Second City Toronto
• Instructor at The Assembly and Social Capital Theatre
• Professor of Presentation Skills at Seneca College 2016-2017
• Improviser for 15 years, studying and performing at theatres across North America
• Advertising copywriter for 12 years
• Former anxious person (over 30 years’ experience)

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SATURDAY, OCTOBER 24
5:00AM - 6:30AM ■ SPECIAL GATHERING: WELCOME INN: A Gathering for New Attendees
9:00AM - 10:30AM ■ SPECIAL GATHERING: ETHICS CAFÉ
11:30AM - 1:00PM ■ SPECIAL GATHERING: PEACEMAKERS GATHERING: Peacemaker Ideas
11:30AM - 1:00PM ■ SPECIAL GATHERING: TRAINERS GATHERING
1:00PM - 2:00PM ■ EXHIBIT HALL

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page to learn how you can get involved in the dunk tank auction fun.

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SATURDAY AND SUNDAY, OCTOBER 24-25
SATURDAY (Continued)
4:00PM - 5:00PM ■ EXHIBIT HALL
4:30PM - 6:00PM ■ SPECIAL GATHERING: WHAT DO ESTATE LAWYERS REALLY WANT AND HOW CAN WE RESPOND?
SUNDAY
4:00AM-8:30PM ■ DINE AROUNDS. Spaces are limited!

                                                                                Who:
                                                                                IACP Past-President, Chris Farish, is making a splash —
                                                                                all in the name of Forum fun and fundraising!
                  SATURDAY, OCTOBER 24

               WHAT: IT’S A
                                                                                Why:
                                                                                Proceeds from the 20 winning balls will help
                                                                                Collaborative Professionals attend next year’s Forum

               DUNK TANK!!!                                                     through the IACP Forum Scholarship Fund.

                IACP is auctioning off 20 balls to                              How to participate:

                the 20 highest bidders! During the                              Visit the Quaid Farish Family Law sponsor page to place
                                                                                your bid by entering your name and the dollar amount
                Saturday Social festivities, tune                               in the POLL.
                in to see Chris get dunked while
                raising money for a great cause. The                            This is an auction, which means only the 20 highest bids will win
                                                                                balls. Bids must be higher than the current minimum bid. Payment
                dunk tank fun will be live-streamed                             will be collected after bidding ends.

                from Dallas with the Farish family
                and friends throwing the balls on                               When:
                the winners’ behalf.                                            Bidding will begin on Monday, October 19, and will
                                                                                end Saturday, October 24, at 3:00 p.m. PDT. Then join
                                                                                IACP on October 24 at 3:30 p.m. PDT after the Saturday
                                                                                Social to see which balls make a splash!

                                                                                               DINE AROUNDS
                                                                                               SUNDAY, OCTOBER 25
                                                                                               4:00AM - 8:30PM PDT

                                                                                             Visit the Forum agenda for a full
                                                                                              listing of times and selections

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WORKSHOPS
MONDAY, OCTOBER 26th - THURSDAY, OCTOBER 29th
2020 NETWORKING AND EDUCATIONAL FORUM ■ VIRTUAL EDITION

WORKSHOPS ■ MONDAY, OCTOBER 26

6:00AM - 7:30PM ■ WORKSHOPS 1-9
1:15PM - 1:45PM ■ Yoga Break

WS #1 ■ AVENGERS ASSEMBLE! - TEAMS DESIGNED FOR                            runaway train at any stage of the proceedings and narrow
CLIENT NEEDS                                                               issues, streamline disclosure, and develop joint valuation,
Monday, October 26th | 6:00 - 9:00AM PDT                                   appraisals, and income assessments. Discuss the impact
Presenters: Erinn Mckee Hannigan, Julia McAninch,                          on the Collaborative Agreement when moving court cases
and Cheryl Panther                                                         to Collaborative.

Avengers Assemble! If only it was that easy! Assembling
a team of Collaborative professionals is challenging.                      WS #5 ■ PERFORMING AT A HIGHER LEVEL:
Building that client centric team can make or break the                    Using IACP Standards to Up Your Game
success of the process itself. Join us to discuss how to use               Monday, October 26th | 10:00 - 11:30AM PDT
our superpowers to build the most successful teams for a                   Presenters: Diane Diel, William Frankenstein, Robert J. Merlin,
successful outcome.                                                        Ed Sachs, and other members of the IACP Standards
                                                                           & Ethics Committee
                                                                           LIMITED TO 100 PARTICIPANTS
WS #2 ■ HOPE – THE ESSENCE OF RESOLVING
FAMILY DISPUTES                                                            The clients are looking at you, your teammates are counting
                                                                           on you, and it’s game time. Will you falter, will you shine?
Monday, October 26th | 7:30 - 9:00AM PDT
                                                                           Don’t sweat it, because you have IACP Standards to see
Presenters: Robert J. Merlin and Zanita A. Zacks-Gabriel                   you through the process. Find out how you can use IACP
LIMITED TO 50 PARTICIPANTS                                                 Standards to enhance your peak performance.
We see clients who are stressed, angry, depressed, or fearful
about their future. This is especially so during the COVID-19
                                                                           WS #6 ■ COLLABORATIVE MEDIATION:
pandemic. This workshop presents the benefits of hope:
                                                                           Has Its Time Come?
how we can use hope to center ourselves, how to share that
hope, and give it to our clients.		                                        Monday, October 26th | 2:00 - 5:00PM PDT
                                                                           Presenters: Kevin R. Scudder, Judith F. Sterling,
                                                                           and Stephen Sulmeyer
WS #3 ■ DOING GOOD AND DOING WELL: Making Your
Peacemaking Practice A Thriving Business                                   Is it time to add Collaborative Mediation to our menu of
                                                                           services? This interactive workshop will explore the pros/
Monday, October 26th | 7:30 - 9:00AM PDT                                   cons of bringing Mediation into the Collaborative fold, what
Presenters: Russell Alexander and Brian Galbraith                          various approaches to “Collaborative Mediation” might look
You do good work; but are you doing well? Learn how to                     like, how we would market CP and Mediation within the
continue to do good work AND make money. You will learn                    same practice groups, and much more.
why working “on” your practice can change everything. You
will learn practical things to do to: make more money, work                WS #7 ■ NEW IACP CLIENT SURVEY: Utilizing Your Clients’
less, and still stay true to your principals.                              Experiences to Improve Your Practice
                                                                           Monday, October 26th | 2:00 - 3:30PM PDT
WS #4 ■ RUNAWAY TRAIN: Using Collaborative Practice to                     Presenters: Robert Arthur, Randy Heller,
Derail High Conflict Court Cases                                           and Nancy Williger
Monday, October 26th | 10:00AM - 1:00PM PDT                                The IACP Research Committee has completed a new Client
Presenters: Russell Alexander, Carrie Heinzl,                              Experience Survey for distribution. Join us to learn about
and Jarrett Johnston                                                       administration and the goals of this survey.
Explore tips and techniques for converting high-conflict
litigious matters into successful Collaborative files. Stop the

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WORKSHOPS ■ MONDAY, OCTOBER 26 (Continued)

6:00AM - 7:30PM ■ WORKSHOPS 1-9
1:15PM - 1:45PM ■ Yoga Break

                                                                           WS #9 ■ MULTICULTURALISM IN
                                                                           COLLABORATIVE PRACTICE
WS #8 ■ COLLABORATIVE FUTURE: New Faces
                                                                           Monday, October 26th | 6:00 - 7:30PM PDT
and New Approaches
Monday, October 26th | 4:00 - 5:30 PM PDT                                  Presenters: Rajan Chettiar and Keiko Imazato
Presenter: Dominique Panko                                                 Collaborative Practice is growing worldwide. Practitioners
                                                                           and clients belong to multicultural societies. Different
Innovations in family law practices are coming from the
                                                                           ethnicities often uphold different norms, beliefs, and
newest crops of professionals. Dominique presents on the
                                                                           values. How does CP function in such wide diversity? How
under-40 approach to Collaborative Practice. New options
                                                                           does the team adapt and manage the needs of their clients
for engagement in the process for clients and practitioners
                                                                           from diverse cultures? Learn how we can be effective
include Online Dispute Resolution, meeting with the
                                                                           multicultural, Collaborative practitioners.
children, and multi-sense inclusion based meetings.

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WORKSHOPS ■ TUESDAY, OCTOBER 27

6:00AM - 7:30PM ■ WORKSHOPS 10-17
1:15PM - 1:45PM ■ YOGA BREAK
1:00PM - 2:00PM ■ EXHIBIT HALL

WS #10 ■ “WOLF IN SHEEP’S CLOTHING” -                                      WS #13 ■ NOTHING HAPPENS IN A VACUUM:
UNDERSTANDING THE DIFFICULTY MAKING                                        Family Systems and Finding Solutions
THAT “PARADIGM SHIFT”                                                      Tuesday, October 27th | 10:00 - 11:30AM PDT
Tuesday, October 27th | 6:00 - 9:00AM PDT                                  Presenter: Randy Heller and Leisa Wintz
Presenters: Marta Alfonso, Robert J. Merlin,
                                                                           This workshop intends to demonstrate the intersection
and Lana M. Stern
                                                                           between Systems Theory and Collaborative Practice,
Collaborative professional teams are a critical component                  and the awareness that nothing happens in isolation,
in a successful spousal resolution. Learn and practice                     such that “right and wrong” is irrelevant to effective
techniques that redirect professional behaviors, or                        outcomes in Collaboration. The focus will be on
team dynamics that interfere with a well-functioning                       understanding the interconnections and the utility of
professional team. A fun and surprising attendee activity                  seeing multiple perspectives simultaneously, building
will demonstrate how those behaviors can be addressed,                     on the strengths, and the expertise inherent in all of
followed by a debrief.		                                                   the various parts of the system to discover what will
                                                                           be useful and beneficial to the whole.
WS #11 ■ THE VALUE OF FINANCIAL LIFESTYLE
PROJECTIONS - GETTING TO YES!                                              WS #14 ■ COLLABORATIVE MEDIATION – TOOLS OF
Tuesday, October 27th | 7:30 - 9:00AM PDT                                  COLLABORATIVE PRACTICE IN MEDIATION PROCESSES
Presenters: Gail Belchior, Bronwen Bruch,                                  Tuesday, October 27th | 2:00 - 3:30PM PDT
and Linda Cartier                                                          Presenters: Susan Hansen, Casey Holtz,
Understanding how Financial Projections help client                        and Grant Zielinski
decisions. Making choices easier for families in transition.               To assist families who are going through divorce or
                                                                           separation, and for Collaborative practitioners to participate
                                                                           in processes that match their philosophy, practitioners
WS #12 ■ FROM DEFENDING TO BLENDING: Building on
                                                                           should consider how the tools of Collaborative Practice
our Best Ideas
                                                                           can be utilized within mediation. This workshop details
Tuesday, October 27th | 10:00AM - 1:00PM PDT                               how Collaborative practitioners can effectively utilize
Presenters: Ron Ousky and Megan Yates                                      Collaborative approaches within mediation processes.
The past 30 years have witnessed an ADR explosion of new
ideas for helping families going through divorce, including                WS #15 ■ MAXIMIZING YOUR LOCAL
the growth of mediation, Collaboration, interdisciplinary                  MEDIA OPPORTUNITIES
practice, unbundling, and self-representation. While most of
                                                                           Tuesday, October 27th | 2:00 - 3:30PM PDT
these trends have provided greater options for clients, there
                                                                           Presenter: Nikki Jones
has also been divisions, even among peacemakers, about
which of these new tools can best serve our clients. This has              Want to use your local media outlets to boost business?
led to a culture where we have, unwittingly, found ourselves               Utilize the power of media to expand outreach and promote
defending our methods, as competitors, rather than                         your service to potential clients. Learn best practices for
blending the best of these ideas as true collaborators. While              building relationships with reporters, as well as how to
it is natural to defend our methods, we may be entering                    book interviews and “ace” them from an experienced public
a new age in which the next wave of clients, particularly                  relations professional.
millennials, will want us to move from defending to
blending. This workshop will focus on the five great trends
in family law conflict resolution during the past 30 years and
the six opportunities that arise from these trends.

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WORKSHOPS ■ TUESDAY, OCTOBER 27 (Continued)

6:00AM - 7:30PM ■ WORKSHOPS 10-17
1:15PM - 1:45PM ■ YOGA BREAK
1:00PM - 2:00PM ■ EXHIBIT HALL

WS #16 ■ CANADIAN FAMILY LAW LAWYERS’ VIEWS OF                             WS #17 ■ YOU HAD ME AT HELLO: Increasing
THE STRENGTHS AND WEAKNESSES OF COLLABORATIVE                              your Collaborative Practice through Effective Intake
PROCESSES                                                                  and Initial Consultation
Tuesday, October 27th | 4:00 - 5:30PM PDT                                  Tuesday, October 27th | 6:00 - 7:30PM PDT
Presenter: John-Paul E. Boyd                                               Presenter: Stephanie Dobson
This webinar will review the conclusions of a study                        Do you want to increase your Collaborative Practice? Start
conducted by the Canadian Research Institute for Law                       with your consultation. You will be able to successfully elicit
and the Family examining family law lawyers’ comparative                   your client’s interests and help them to understand how a
views of Collaborative Processes, mediation, arbitration,                  Collaborative model will help them meet these interests.
and litigation. We will discuss the perceived strengths and                You will learn how to create an easy-to-implement action
weakness of Collaborative Processes and lawyers’ views of                  plan beyond the consultation.
the extent to which the outcomes of these processes are in
the interests of clients and clients’ children.

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WORKSHOPS ■ WEDNESDAY, OCTOBER 28

7:30AM-7:30PM ■ WORKSHOPS 18-26
1:15PM - 1:45PM ■ YOGA BREAK

WS #18 ■ SHIFTING LEADERSHIP TO A NEUTRAL SPACE                            always difficult. Many clients find it painful to say their
IN HIGH CONFLICT CASES                                                     goodbyes. If attempted, the goodbye is often fumbled or
Wednesday, October 28th | 7:30 - 9:00AM PDT                                misunderstood. In this webinar, you will learn how to assist
Presenters: Diana Deyo Ryan and John Sobraske
                                                                           clients to say “Goodbye” in a manner that frees them to
                                                                           better participate in their divorce process, and to set the
Too often, high-conflict cases can spin out of control. When               stage for better co-parenting.
lawyers occupy a leadership role for the case as a whole,
advocacy, in response to client pressure, can accidentally
fan the flames. Handing leadership to neutrals can be like                 WS #22 ■ THE DOOR IS OPEN: USING DIVORCE
adding more ballast to stabilize a boat in stormy seas.                    OPTIONS™ TO EDUCATE THE PUBLIC ABOUT
                                                                           COLLABORATIVE

WS #19 ■ GENDER & THE COLLABORATIVE PROCESS:                               Wednesday, October 28th | 2:00 - 5:00PM PDT
The Impact of Bias and Identity                                            Presenters: Kathy Campbell, Tanya Prioste,
                                                                           and Beth Proudfoot
Wednesday, October 28th | 10:00AM - 1:00PM PDT
Presenters: Allison J. Bell, Justin L. Kelsey,                             Learn how to bring in more clients. Divorce Options™, a
and Kim U. Whelan                                                          consumer course about divorce process options, is now
                                                                           available for communities to license, modify, and present
Gender identity and bias impacts the Collaborative                         online or in-person. After an overview, attendees will learn
process in many ways. We’ll explore through demos                          how to publicize it, attract new professionals and referral
and role play potential gender assumptions about the                       sources, and reach client audiences.
clients or the team, the ways that bias affects neutral vs
advocate team members, and the challenges of traditional
and non-traditional cases including non-binary or                          WS #23 ■ THE ROLE OF BEHAVIORAL FINANCE
transgender clients.                                                       AND THE FINANCIAL NEUTRAL IN THE
                                                                           COLLABORATIVE PROCESS
WS #20 ■ UCLA: The United States and Beyond (It’s not                      Wednesday, October 28th | 2:00 - 3:30PM PDT
just a university!) Version III                                            Presenter: Janet Baker

Wednesday, October 28th | 10:00 - 11:30AM PDT                              Janet Baker has worked as a financial expert in all
Presenters: Robert J. Merlin and Zanita Zacks-Gabriel                      areas of divorce, her favorite is Collaborative Practice.
LIMITED TO 50 PARTICIPANTS                                                 She will explain her process and how she uses Behavioral
                                                                           Finance to put her clients at ease. Janet will share how
Adopting Collaborative statutes and/or rules is a great                    she and her team help clients craft the best divorce
way to expand Collaborative Practice globally. During this                 settlements possible.
workshop we will discuss the current status and expansion
of the UCLA in the United States and the adoption of
Collaborative statutes and rules in other countries.                       WS #24 ■ ENHANCING COLLABORATION WITH
                                                                           HUMOUR AND CREATIVITY
WS #21 ■ THE GOODBYE PROCESS - PART OF A MORE                              Wednesday, October 28th | 2:00 - 3:30PM PDT
SUCCESSFUL DIVORCE                                                         Presenter: Anita Dorczak
Wednesday, October 28th | 10:00 - 11:30AM PDT                              Humour and creativity are not widely recognized as useful
Presenters: René de Haas, Annelies Verhoeff,                               tactics in conflict resolution. This workshop will focus
and J. Mark Weiss                                                          on humour and creativity. Expect comments on their
LIMITED TO 22 PARTICIPANTS                                                 functions in a negotiation, some theory, video clips, and
The end of a marriage, and the related goodbyes, are almost                exercises, leading to a discussion about the advantages and
                                                                           disadvantages of their use in Collaborative negotiation.

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WORKSHOPS ■ WEDNESDAY, OCTOBER 28 (Continued)

6:00AM - 7:30PM ■ WORKSHOPS 18-26
1:15PM - 1:45PM ■ YOGA BREAK

WS #25 ■ JUST ROLL WITH IT: Recognizing and                                WS #26 ■ COLLABORATIVE COMMUNITY IN THE FACE
Responding to Resistance                                                   OF ADVERSITY
Wednesday, October 28th | 4:00 - 5:30PM PDT                                Wednesday, October 28th | 6:00 - 7:30PM PDT
Presenter: Deborah Gilman                                                  Presenters: Rajan Chettiar and Kevin R. Scudder
Resistance to change comes up in our work often. As                        Since last Forum, our world has been faced with unimagined
clients discover they must make changes, avoidance,                        adversity. How has our Collaborative Community
defensiveness, or confrontation can occur. Recognizing                     responded? Join us as we build on last year’s discussion
resistant behavior and underlying motivations helps to                     on how our Collaborative Community handles adversity,
identify best approaches to responding to unwilling clients.               how adversity can make us stronger, and prepare us for the
Rolling with resistance effectively creates cooperation                    unknown future as Collaborative Professionals.
between professionals and clients for eliciting change.

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WORKSHOPS ■ THURSDAY, OCTOBER 29

7:30AM - 3:30PM ■ WORKSHOPS 27-32
1:15PM - 1:45PM ■ YOGA BREAK
4:00PM - 6:00PM ■ CLOSING CEREMONIES & STU WEBB LECTURE

WS #27 ■ COLLABORATIVE MEDIATION: Opening the                              WS #30 ■ DEVELOPING COLLABORATIVE PROCESS
Door to Neutrality                                                         COURSES FOR HIGHER EDUCATION
Thursday, October 29th | 7:30 - 9:00AM PDT                                 Thursday, October 29th | 10:00 - 11:30AM PDT
Presenters: Jennifer Suzor and Mary-Anne Popescu                           Presenter: Joshua Aaron Jones

Examine the potential for diverse professionals to work                    The door is open but could open wider with a push for
with families in Collaborative Mediation, a unique, insightful             Collaborative Practice courses in higher education. Learn
conflict approach using reflective process design and the                  how to propose a course, develop and market a course, and
neutrality of a Mediator to work outside the traditional                   successfully teach a course. All with an interest in advancing
Collaborative team or mediation approaches; and tailored to                the study of Collaborative Process in higher education
each family with a focus on timely and efficient resolution.               should attend.

WS #28 ■ STREAMLINED FLAT FEE, LOW COST, AND PRO                           WS #31 ■ DIVORCE BY THE DECADE: Best Practices for
BONO: A Deep Dive Into Access to Collaboration Programs                    What Matters Most to Your Clients Based on Data that
Thursday, October 29th | 10:00AM - 1:00PM PDT                              Defines Their Generation
Presenters: Jo-Anne Fiore, Brian Galbraith,                                Thursday, October 29th | 2:00- 3:30PM PDT
Deborah Gilman, Randy Heller, Deirdre Severide,                            Presenter: Lili Vasileff
and Elizabeth Thayer
                                                                           We used to think that the longer you were married, or the
We will share our established programs that successfully                   longer you waited to get married, the better. Today, we
bring CP to middle class and lower-income families.                        realize that three key factors shape EACH generation and
You’ll learn what you need to know, documentation, and                     that how you interact with clients during divorce should be
marketing tips to establish a program. You’ll learn step-by-               attuned to each generation.
step how each program works and what you need to do to
launch your program.
                                                                           WS #32 ■ THE OVERLOOKED VALUE OF THE CHILD
                                                                           SPECIALIST AS A FAMILY FOCUSED FACILITATOR IN
WS #29 ■ SPECIAL NEEDS FAMILIES AND THE                                    COLLABORATIVE MEETINGS
COLLABORATIVE PROCESS
                                                                           Thursday, October 29th | 2:00 - 3:30PM PDT
Thursday, October 29th | 10:00 - 11:30AM PDT                               Presenters: Bart J. Carey, Cathleen Collinsworth,
Presenters: Rebecca Fischer, Carolann Mazza, Thabatta Mizrahi,             Bruce Fredenburg, and Carol Hughes
Jordan Niefeld, Jerome Poliacoff, and Ed Sachs
                                                                           Child Specialists, usually the most underutilized team
There are burgeoning number of divorce cases involving                     professionals, glean essential information: family dynamics,
special needs children. This workshop offers a pragmatic                   triggers, and hidden agendas. Many underappreciate how
look at special needs and special needs families, their                    CSs are often the best positioned to bring warring couples
relevance in the arena of divorce, and what Collaborative                  to agreement. A pioneering, interdisciplinary team teaches
professionals can do to make the system work better for                    how they employ CSs to shift clients toward agreement,
these children and their families.                                         simultaneously improving cost efficiency.

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PLENARY ■ THURSDAY, OCTOBER 29

7:30AM - 3:30PM ■ WORKSHOPS 27-32
1:15PM - 1:45PM ■ YOGA BREAK
4:00PM - 6:00PM ■ CLOSING CEREMONIES & STU WEBB LECTURE

STU WEBB LECTURE
AN EXAMINATION OF GAME THEORY FOR SOLVING FAMILY LAW PROBLEMS IN A
COLLABORATIVE DIVORCE FORMAT
Game Theory is both a branch of mathematics and a science. It is the study of how people in
relationships make choices. It can also be a guide for people in negotiations, helping them
make choices that yield optimal outcomes for both of them. The use of Game Theory principles
in settlement negotiations requires a special mindset and specific negotiation strategies and
techniques, very different from a traditional family law perspective. A Game Theory approach to
negotiations is a hand-in-glove fit with Collaborative Divorce, which positions professionals, not
as bargainers, but as planners and problem solvers. In this presentation, Dr. Waldron presents
the basics with regard to this new mindset, principles, strategies and techniques, all derived
from Game Theory. Collaborative divorce has been a major change in direction of family law,
recognizing what many have intuitively known was a flawed system and offers a more party                            Kenneth Waldron
and family friendly approach to divorce. Game Theory principles can enhance the Collaborative
approach by shifting the focus from short-term legal outcomes to long-term financial and family
goals and provides effective planning tools.

About Kenneth H. Waldron
Kenneth H. Waldron, Ph.D. is licensed psychologist and a Member in the firm of Monona Mediation and Counseling LLC, Monona,
Wisconsin. His practice has been devoted to providing services to divorced/separated parents for over 35 years. Dr. Waldron
has provided divorce mediation and arbitration, a range of programs for conflicted parents, including Structured Coparenting
Counseling and Parenting Coordinator services, expert witness services, assessment and treatment of Parental Alienation
Syndrome, and educational programs for divorcing parents. He has served as court appointed expert, performing custody studies
and testifying to social science research in jurisdictions throughout the United States and in Canada. Ken has done research
and has published broadly on topics related to children of divorce. His latest books, co-authored with Allan Koritzinsky, Esq.,
is Game Theory and the Transformation of Family Law, in which the authors analyze traditional family law using game theory
principles to help understand and explain why traditional family law often promotes rather than relieves family conflict, and,
Winning Strategies in Divorce, which is a “how-to” apply game theory principles to case settlement. The authors also use game
theory principles to propose alternative bargaining approaches, both in mediation and settlement bargaining, which increase
effective communication and cooperation and increase the chance for optimal outcomes for both parties, and families when
there are children. He has spoken to numerous groups of judges, attorneys, mediators and mental health providers nationwide,
along with having made appearances on television, radio and participating in on-line interviews. Ken has trained professionals
across the country in Structured Coparenting Counseling and Structured Coparenting Training Classes, a specialized program for
reducing parenting conflict and increasing effective communication and cooperation between separated parents. Ken has also
published numerous articles, chiefly in legal journals, on general divorce related topics but also special topics such as post-divorce
relocation. He and his co-author, Attorney Allan Koritzinsky, offer free booklets to professionals and blogs to parents on co-
parenting related subjects on the site, www.thedivorcedoctor.net.

Ken is a member of the Association of Family and Conciliation Courts (AFCC), has sat on the boards of the Eyes of the Child
program development board, the Wisconsin Inter-professional Committee on Divorce (WIPCOD) and of the AFCC-Wisconsin
Chapter. He is currently the editor of the AFCC-WI Newsletter. He is a trained mediator and has spoken to groups on advanced
mediation principles in both state and national forums.

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